The selection of a bride is very important as she will by the one with whom you shall live for several hundred years.

You will need someone who does not get many ideas of her own but has intelligence enough to do as she is told. Since we all pretty much have the same amount of mentality and the only way to find someone with much less is to get one with a birth defect then that is a bit of a problem

That being the case, we need to look at personality traits, specifically submissiveness. Since we wil rule her by fear of being given feelings, we need to look at her sensitivity and how she responds to rubber clothing. That too is very much a given for us but some do more than others. Finally, we need to see how she responds in her feelings. Will thay be those of a proper bride that will make her respond? All of these things become part of us shortly after we get our colors, when whe go from being a white larva to a P'chana with eye, skin and hair color. So that is the time to find the best kind of girl who will be a fit bride for our duaghter. who should also be about the same age. We begin by going to the homes of members of bonded families or to bonded families of other clans who invite us to do so and see how the newly made p'chana responds to ours. Deos she follow or try to lead or stay of even step? Does she accept being fondled or is she stand-offish or dies she try to fondle? Will she do as she is told after only a small amount of subduing? Is she easily pushed down by our little girl and things like that. How does she respond to rubber? Does she cry frequently and with only small prodding?

What you want in a prospective bride for your fairylet is somenoe who is about a head shorter than she, is of a pathetic, easily brought to tears disposition, becoming quite common amongst the light-haired from which you will choose your daughters bride, but with a defiant streak, which, alas is becoming less common. This will bring out the streak of mean that is in every Fairy when she is confronted with persons of this ilk. You want her to be potty-trained. This will make it more fun to make her into a wetter as it will make her frustrated and angry as she gradually loses her ability to hold it and knows she is being turned back into a baby and who is doing this to her and why. She should be somewhat easy for your fairylet to physically handle and subdue. Her voice ought be that of a helpless little girl.

Finally we use the Brides Test. I have created this test to see what her feelihngs will be like. After she meets all the other measures, take the little girl to your home for a night or weekend where she is shown pictures of weddings with special emphasis on the bridal wetsy. Then she is dressed in rubber and a very big doll is also dressed in rubber and the two of them put in the rubber sleeping bag or in the rubber chastizement room in the rubber bed and Nurse is to see what happenes. One of two things will happen. The girl will play that the bride is the doll and she is taking her to bed and subduing her and giving her a wetsy. The other is that she is the bride and is being raped by the dolly, trying to fight her off but losing and getting the wetsy.

If the girl feels raped by the doll that she is a fit prospect for a bride. She ought then gradually be prepared for the life that will be hers. On the other hand, some believe that a girl who feels that she is raping the doll and giving her the wetsy is a better catch, since it is moree fun to break a high-spirted and proud girl.