Now that you have found the Bride to be for your little girl. you have to go through the briding process.
This starts with an application for a Charter of Marriage form the appropriate Queen'sLady. When you do this, she will be able to confirm the lineage of the two families; yours and the prospective bride or as she now is called a fiancina, as well as any other relations that might impinge on the marriage, such as claims of marriage by other families, illigitimacy or other things like that. She also does the same with your family. Her records will go back to the founding of her Palace which goes back over 100 generations. Then the study will move to the Queen's Palace where it goes back to the founding of Monda-di-Auea and beyond. Malicia's people kept excellent breeding records: Right down to the insides of the cells of forming for each person. So, in toto, we know the make-up of every Flora di Estelle.
If this is not successful the Queen'sLady informs all involved, If the cause is that there is a higher commitment then the two families negotiate. Since the greater family had not excercized its right to bride the fiancina and the other family did. the active familiy is usually deferred to. In the event that it is not. the entitled family is to seek out an alternative bride. If there are questions of legitimacy then a Waiver of Purity is sougnt. This has never happened since it it not possible to have babies by accident and the only legitimacy questions come from secret activities. This is done by the Queen'sLady's and the Palace Truthfinders. They can look into the building blocks of cells and see where there are matches, both inside and outsid the bounds of Marriage and its likes since the time of the Creches in the time of Malicia.
Once all claims have been settle. the Charter of Marriage is given to the family and is served by the Queen'sLadies Deputies upon the family of the fiancina. This is witness by the Prefectresses of the area and the deputies of the Provinciala and is recorded in their halls. as well as added in detail to the records of the Queen'sLady of the Region.
After the Charter of Marriage is registered. the Articles of Briding are written up and registered. this is a list of things that will be done ovr time that includes.
This whole process takes about two years and is "served" on the Bride to be's family upon her sixth name day