The life of the bride to be is to be one of moderate discomfort, to both show that she is to be a "dolly person" and to please the housemistress to be and show here dominion over this lesser person. It has the full supoort of "the Tiara", the name for the totality of our way of life; institutions, Hierarchy, laws and customs. Upon the service of the Charter of Marriage and Pre-engagement, the very first thing to happen is that the fiancina is given to the Housemistress to be in a very public ceremony called Pre-Engagement. The Housemistress to be starts by tickling the Bride to be into submission, then stripping and diaperingg her for a wetsy. Two attnedants are sent to the girl's home and they return with all her dresses and things which are put in a pile on a large flat stone to which are added the clothes just removed from her. She is then dressed in the traditional public chastizement garb of the pink rubber babydoll and given a "trollop's wetsy", which takes about an hour during which she will altenrate among crying, moaning, whimpering, sobbing and screamihg several times until the wetsy. After this, as she is no limp and inert, the Housemistress to be puts the Pre-engagement ring on her finger, kisses her on the tiara and then on the lips.

The fiancina's former clothes are burned and replaced with a "gift" from the Housemistress' family as a kind of welcoming in present, this consists of a full rubber layette, and a full wardrobe of dresses ranging from babydolls to dresses with skirts no longer than the width of 3 fingers above the knee. For underthings, the Bride to be is given rubber tops, half-slips and panties that are covered with rubber like training panties, all in pink. As she grows, the outgrown items are replaced with duplicates of the right size to fit.

Over time. the fiancina is made to undergo rubber treatment at the whim of the housemistress to make her so that she needs her "special undies" and must be diapered if she is not to have access to a place to wet within 10 minutes. Se sleeps on a bed, now with a rubber sheet which may or may not be covered by a clothe one at the whim of HOusemistress to be. The rubber top is so that someone can give here a "little wetsy" on the nipples whenever they wish. The rubber half-slips are to be rubbed on the thigh: The HOusemistress is permitted to reach under the dress to do this but others may only rub the skirt of the dress. The other purpose of the rubber slips is to keep the girl from sitting in a way that her skirts will cover her knees since, if she tries, the rubber will be on her knees. Also, the slip should be a transparent pink and just peek out from the hem of the skirt to show that the material is right on the girl's body where she can feel it and to embarrass her by having part of her underthings show. When the bride is to be a Page, all her dresses are to be no longer than 3 fingers above the knee. Page-Mistress is instructed to "frequently Chastize" Fiancina. Since a Page is to stand 4 hour "watches" and since the little girl cannot hold it for more than 10 minutes, she is in diapers and rubber panties and changed in front of the other Pages. Her bed has a rubber sheet whcih may or may not be under a cloth one as made clear by the Housemistress' family.

Uopn entry into school Housemistress and Fiancina are presented together. Fiancina is to bring with her a "baby basket" with a small rubber layette whcih she is to lay before her Housemistress. To show the status of the fiancina the Housmistress pushers her down onto a rubber sheet on her tummy and wets a few drops in her heir and brushes it in so that she will smell. This will establish that she belongs to someone and who that someon is. Each moring, before school, after morning cleaning, the Hoismistress comes over and wets a few drops in the girl's heir to make her smell. By the time she is ten, this is seldom necessary as the bride to be is starting to smell on her own.

As the twosome move into the social world as a couple, at age 12. first as "Juvenas" then as "Damiselas", The Housemistress takes more liberties with the fiancina, kissing her on the lips and massaging her in public and making her show her pre-engagement ring so that people know she is spoken for. In private, at about age 14, the budding housemistress starts wetting on the bride, forcing her down on a rubber sheet and t hen wetting on her and spreading it over her clothes. At age 16 this is done for the first time at a public gathering. If the bride to be makes her peevish, Housemistress will subdue the bride to be, change her into her rubbers, wetsy her then wet on her in a humiliating display of "just who is the queen and who is the baby aroiund here".

Soon it will be time for the Engagement